So, you've decided to buy your partner the perfect ring—whether it's an engagement ring, an anniversary present, or just because you're feeling extra generous—and there's just one tiny little problem: you have absolutely no idea what their ring size is. Yikes. Don't worry, we've all been there. Finding the right ring size is crucial, but if you ask them outright, the jig will be up. Luckily, you can get out of this kind of situation by showing a little creativity and sneaky stealth. Here are 10 really creative ways to learn their ring size without giving away the surprise.
Borrow a ring that they wear on the same finger
This is a classic trick—and one that is totally genius if you are quick on your feet. The next time your partner takes off a ring they wear on the same finger you are planning to buy a new ring for, just borrow it for a little while. You do not need to pull off some Mission Impossible-level heist here. Just be subtle. And then use the GIVA ring sizer that you can find on the GIVA app. Open the GIVA app, head to profile, and you will find Ring Sizer - a value added service from GIVA where you can place the ring on top and adjust the size bar to fit the ring size. And then the app will show you the size!
Pro tip: Do not get caught by her or family members so that you do not spoil the surprise plan )
Ask your friend or family member
If you suspect one of your partner’s best friends or a close family member knows their ring size, ask them, and all will be well. People generally know each other’s sizes, so getting a bit of help from someone in the know can be life-saving. Whomsoever you choose to ask, just make sure that they can keep a secret, because there is no room for slip-ups here.
Pro tip: If you really feel super sneaky, you could say something about “how rings tend to be tricky to size?” and casually ask if they know the actual ring size of your partner.
Use ring sizer tool
Precision matters
If you are seriously committed to making it absolutely right (and you have a small wallet for the purpose of using some sneaky planning), order one free ring sizer from either an online jeweller or a local jeweller; they often give you some gadget that measures their ring size with no hint or suspicion from your partner. You just need to use it without her suspecting. Maybe you could say you are measuring your own ring size and test some jewellery designs. It is a little cheeky, but it works.
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Compare to your own finger
Sometimes, the simplest solutions are the best. If you wear rings that are close to the same size as your partner’s, you can use your own fingers as a measuring tool. Casually slip one of your rings onto their finger when they’re not looking, and compare how it fits. Does it slip on easily? Is it too tight? Too loose? You’ll have a rough idea of their size after just a quick comparison.
Pro tip: If you wear rings on a similar finger, this trick works like a charm!
Analyse How Their Current Ring Fits
Another aspect to consider would be if they own any rings that your partner already wears on one finger. Examine how that silver ring or gold ring fits them. If they’re a little tight? Loose? Slips on easily? Those little clues can often tell you about the size of the ring you want to surprise with. Pay attention to the rings she puts on every day—they will often be close to the size of the one you need or want to get.
Pro tip: Look at the width of her existing rings, as it would give you some clear idea about the size. A wider band would ask for a slightly bigger size, for example.
Pretend You’re Shopping for Yourself
One of the easiest ways to accidentally get their ring size is to pretend you’re shopping for yourself. Seriously, who doesn’t love jewellery? Next time you’re out shopping together, suggest stopping by a silver jewellery store to look for something for yourself. You can even try on rings for yourself and ask your partner to help you decide which one looks best. Then, while trying on a couple of rings, casually slip one on her finger and see how it fits. Easy peasy.
Pro tip: If they’re a little suspicious, just tell them you're window shopping for future occasions. No harm in being a bit vague!
Make Your Own DIY Measuring Kit
If you are a crafty person (or just want to impress them with your creativity), you can create your ring sizer at home. You can make this device at home with a thin strip of paper or even string. Put it on your finger, sizing the other person's finger. Notice where it meets and measure it using the ruler. Alternatively, you can always print off one of the many great, free printable ring size charts on the web and use that. While this is a home and should accomplish or aid in such a secondary purpose.
Tip: Don’t forget to cut it to the proper size, and keep your hands steady to avoid any measuring mishaps!
Read more: Engagement Ring Shopping 101
Bring Up Ring Size in a Casual Conversation
Another sneaky trick is to casually bring up the topic of ring sizes in a normal conversation. Perhaps you're talking about your family’s wedding rings, or maybe you’re chatting about your dream engagement ring (wink, wink). Mentioning ring sizes in passing can get her to reveal their size without even realising it. Just make sure you don't overdo it and accidentally raise any suspicions.
Pro tip: Keep the conversation light and unrelated to any big surprise plans—you don’t want to give the game away!
Guess Using a Thread and Ribbon
Want to find your ring size without leaving the comfort of your home? Grab a thread or ribbon! Here’s a quirky way to do it: cut a small piece of thread or ribbon (about 6 inches long), then wrap it around your finger ( while she is sleeping) where the ring will sit. Mark where the ends meet, and measure the length with a ruler. Use this measurement and compare it with a ring size chart to find your perfect fit.
Pro Tip: Don’t make the thread too tight—give it a little slack to avoid an overly snug ring size. Also, measure at the end of the day when your fingers are at their largest!
Read more: 20 Different Types of Rings Everyone Should Have
The Perfect Ring, The Perfect Surprise
Lastly, knowing the ring size of the partner of your life should not be stressful but should be fun and have plenty of sneaky moments here and there. Borrowing a ring from your partner (sneaking) to measure without their knowledge or even seeking help from a friend is the right answer if you don't want them to suspect something when you do it on your own; DIY tricks are another. The most important thing is that the surprise remains a secret, and when she sees the perfect fit, you’ll be the hero of the day.
